"A Child's Ten Commandments to Parents"

1. My hands are small; please, don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or throw a ball. My legs are short; please, slow down so that I can keep up with you.

2. My eyes have not seen the world as your's have; please let me explore safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily.

3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for a short time, please, take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world and do so willingly.

4. My feelings are tender; please, be sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would like to be treated.

5. I am a special gift from God; please, treasure me as God intended you to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.

6. I need your encouragement to grow. Please, go easy on the criticism; remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.

7. Please, give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I'll be prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of me.

8. Please, don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please, don't try to compare me to my brother or sister.

9. Please, don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids.  Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special.

10. Please, take me to Sunday School and church or synagogue regularly, setting a good example for me to follow. I enjoy learning more about God..

©  Dr. Kevin Leman Parenthood Without Hassles, Well Almost

 published in 1979 by Harvest House Publishers and in First-Time Mom published in 2004 by Tyndale



©Danny Hahlbohm ~ used with permission
name of painting is "Little Precious One"


 
 
 
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